"Here I Am!"
Thoughts on VaYera 2018
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We are unknown to ourselves, we knowers – and with good reason. We have never looked for ourselves – so how are we ever supposed to find ourselves? (Friedrich Nietzsche)
In order for the trial to be authentic, it would necessitate that Avraham act totally within the limits of his free will. This is borne out by the not insignificant detail that Avraham was addressed by his personal name.
(R. Avraham Y. Kook)
The formative years of Avraham’s life are bookended by parallel episodes. His first and last dialogues with God were each initiated by the command of lekh lekha – “go forth.” Both missions entailed separating from family – at first leaving his “land, birthplace and father’s home” (Ber. 12:2) and later parting with Yisshak at the Akedah (22:2). And each of the trials was accompanied by God’s subsequent promise of blessing and bountiful offspring.
Avraham is the personality in the Torah who is most often associated with hesed. He demonstrated that trait by caring for and mentoring his nephew Lot after the passing of his father, begging Sarah not to send away Yishmael, and sitting at his tent’s entrance in search of needy travelers. Ironically, however, most of the critical moments in his life were in fact characterized by separation from others. In a life framed by the famous departures of lekh lekha. Avraham was forcibly separated from his wife Sarah upon descent into Egypt, from Lot upon return to Canaan and from Yishmael when he finally settled down. What was God’s intended message to Avraham with those many separations?
Consider the Zohar’s unique explanation of God’s initial command to Avraham:
R. Shimon said: … ‘Lekh lekha’ – To perfect yourself. ‘From your land’ – From the place of dwelling within you, in which you consider the wisdom with which you were born. ‘To the land that I will show you’ – There it will be revealed to you that which you seek, the power that is appointed over it (the land), which is deep and hidden.
God’s repeated command of lekh lekha entailed more than a simple call to “go forth” (lekh). It called for a courageous act of individuality (lekha). He challenged Avraham to “go for himself,” forcing him to struggle through the difficult process of identifying himself.
Best-selling author and psychologist Mihaly Csikszentihalyi’s described a relevant aspect of our own experiences as humans:
It is relatively easy to become involved with a job, to enjoy the company of friends, to be entertained in a theater or at a concert. But what happens when we are left to our own devices? Alone, when the dark night of the soul descends, are we forced into frantic attempts to distract the mind from its coming? Or are we able to take on activities that are not only enjoyable, but make the self grow?
Although Avraham was naturally inclined to surround himself with others – as a mentor, guide and leader, God time and again forced him to distance himself from them and grapple with the important questions of “Who am I?” and “What are my true convictions and beliefs?” In the presence of others, it is difficult to distinguish our individual thoughts from those of the group. In solitude, however, our true self shines through.
Approaching Avraham for his final challenge at the Akedah, God prefaced the command by calling out his name: “Avraham!” (22:1) He challenged Avraham to answer the call of his true self-identity. And Avraham courageously responded “Hineni – Here I am!” His single-word response reflected his confidence in completing the ultimate test of his life’s mission – self-identity. “One is tempted to suggest that Abraham, by responding as he does, almost passes the test even before it begins,” Leon Kass wrote, “he knows who is calling and before whom he stands and he makes himself fully available to a source beyond himself.”
As the frightening encounter at the top of the mountain neared its end, God’s messenger reappeared to Avraham and addressed him: “Avraham, Avraham!” Avraham understood that his life’s mission was complete. Having achieved a genuine self-identity, he had become a model for future seekers of God. And so, he confidently responded “Hineni – Here I am!”